{"id":318,"date":"2023-08-21T16:13:24","date_gmt":"2023-08-21T15:13:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.iowsab.org.uk\/app\/?page_id=318"},"modified":"2023-10-02T12:10:56","modified_gmt":"2023-10-02T11:10:56","slug":"strategies-to-cope","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.iowsab.org.uk\/app\/professional-support\/strategies-to-cope\/","title":{"rendered":"Strategies to cope"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Strategies to cope<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns are-vertically-aligned-center is-not-stacked-on-mobile has-background-color has-primary-background-color has-text-color has-background is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\" style=\"border-radius:10px\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-60-font-size\">There is no right or wrong way to feel<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.iowsab.org.uk\/app\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/08\/btn-icon-27.svg\" alt=\"btn icon 27\" class=\"wp-image-346\" style=\"width:320px\" width=\"320\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Remember there is no &#8220;right&#8221; or &#8220;wrong&#8221; way to feel.<\/strong> People react in different ways to trauma, so don\u2019t tell yourself (or anyone else) what you should be thinking, feeling, or doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t ignore your feelings<\/strong> \u2014 it will only slow recovery. It may seem better in the moment to avoid experiencing your emotions, but they exist whether you\u2019re paying attention to them or not. Even intense feelings will pass if you simply allow yourself to feel what you feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Avoid obsessively reliving the traumatic event. <\/strong>Repetitious thinking can overwhelm your nervous system, making it harder to think clearly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Partake in activities<\/strong> that keep your mind occupied (read, watch a movie, cook, play with your kids or pets if you have them), so you\u2019re not dedicating all your energy and attention to the traumatic event.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Re-establish routine. <\/strong>There is comfort in the familiar. After a disaster, getting back\u2014 as much as possible \u2014 to your normal routine, will help you minimise traumatic stress, anxiety, and hopelessness. Even if your routine\u00a0is disrupted, you can structure your day with regular times for eating, sleeping, spending time with family, and relaxing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Put major life decisions on hold. <\/strong>Making big life decisions about home, work, or family while traumatised will only increase the stress in your life. If possible, try to wait until life has settled down, you\u2019ve regained your emotional balance, and you\u2019re better able to think clearly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If symptoms do not resolve over time seek help from:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"is-style-no-indent wp-block-list\">\n<li>Your GP<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Crisis line<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Community Safe Haven<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mind.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">www.mind.org.uk<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Strategies to cope There is no right or wrong way to feel Remember there is no &#8220;right&#8221; or &#8220;wrong&#8221; way to feel. People react in different ways to trauma, so don\u2019t tell yourself (or anyone else) what you should be thinking, feeling, or doing. Don\u2019t ignore your feelings \u2014 it will only slow recovery. 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